Ignorance is not bliss!

There comes a time when we all just lose our calm, our patience. There are millions of situations or people or things that bother us, but we stay mum, we ignore them because has other serious and IMPORTANT issues to offer us. So we keep ignoring and concentrate on the good parts. But then what do you do if it keeps happening and gets too much to take? How much do you ignore or can you ignore? And then finally when you react, you become the one that did the wrong thing. I mean, How dare you react? You are supposed to stay quiet and ignore it. You are supposed to act like nothing is wrong and go on with your life. Is that so hard for you to do, you numb skull? But, why is there a need for you to pretend like nothing is wrong? Why can't you just be upfront about things? If it's bothering you, well then it is bothering you. If you can't let go, well then you can't. Why do people expect YOU to be calm all the time? Why do people expect YOU to ignore things all the time? You don't have a say in things or what? You can't stand up for yourself when you know nobody else will? Well, you have to stand up for yourself, right? You can't just keep ignoring things when you know that something is not right. And when it happens to this one relationship you have which makes you happy, then what? You're supposed to ignore it and stay happy? Or are you supposed to put a stop to it and then stay happy? I don't think you can stay happy by ignoring some sadist person who keeps saying things to put you off and make you feel like you're in the wrong relationship. Yes, you can always ignore, but only if your ready to deal with the bunch of frustration it comes to you with in the end, because ignoring such things only add on to your frustration. That's exactly what happened with her too. Some sadist of a person keept messaging her, and she kept ignoring, not reacting. Not giving that person the reaction he/she wanted to see. So, that demon in human form kept messaging her, and she kept ignoring which only kept adding on to her anger, her frustration. Finally, when she reacted, she became the wrong person. She became the disturbing element. She realized that she should not have ignored anything at the first place, and instead she should have listened to her gut feeling but she chose to listen to others which did no good. Just like this, there are millions of things in our lives that we don't fight for, that we just ignore, but we don't realize that ignoring something like this can end up being a pain in the a**. I mean, such things can end up become a serious problem for us. Whoever said, "Ignorance is bliss", most probably was not even dealing with a real crisis. Because I believe that ignorance often brings you trouble and you wind up regretting all the things you ignored at the first place.