Why do we think too much? Why do we have negative thoughts? And when we have positive thoughts then why do we believe in the negative ones? Why do we spoil our mood because some thoughts. How does negative over power the positive? Why do we lose our hopes? Why do we doubt?
We give up on relationships because of these doubts and negative thoughts. We give up on our beliefs because of these doubts and negative thoughts. We lose our friends, family and every special person because of our doubts and negative thoughts?
Why can't we give up on the negative thoughts? Every time we think of something negative, why can't we stop ourselves and think of the positive?
I don't have any answers to this because I think too much and its mostly negative. Whatever I think about, whether its relationships, studies, family or whatever, I think negative. Its like I don't believe in myself, its like I don't believe in my relationships, like I don't believe in God. Its easy for everybody to say that 'God has set something real good for you, don't worry.' Ever noticed that people can just say that so easily but when it comes to themselves they doubt their own abilities? they doubt their own relationships? they doubt themselves? And to be clear, I'm not criticizing here, because I too am like that. I get happy over small things but at the same time I get upset over small things. I doubt myself, I start losing hope and I ask myself, "Why me?"
I'm sure everyone asks this question to themselves and to God, "why me?" Why can't we just tell ourselves that God will help us through? Why can't we just believe that this bad phase will be over one day and we'll be happy again with whatever we have and that we'll have better. We all give up on our relationships over small issues. We all doubt our capabilities just because we are not getting placed from our respective colleges. We all blame ourselves when something goes wrong? And every time we blame ourselves, I now believe, we blame God.
Ever thought that like we get hurt, God gets hurt too? God gets hurt when we blame ourselves, when we doubt, when we lose hope, when we give up, when we don't believe in our relationships and in our capabilities?
I don't know where I'm going with this. But this is all that I'm thinking about right now. But all I can say is its high time for me to stop thinking too much, and if I can't stop thinking then I should stop thinking negatively and if I can't do that then I can at least try to control the negative thoughts and let some positive thoughts in, because if every thing has a negative then it has its positives too.
We give up on relationships because of these doubts and negative thoughts. We give up on our beliefs because of these doubts and negative thoughts. We lose our friends, family and every special person because of our doubts and negative thoughts?
Why can't we give up on the negative thoughts? Every time we think of something negative, why can't we stop ourselves and think of the positive?
I don't have any answers to this because I think too much and its mostly negative. Whatever I think about, whether its relationships, studies, family or whatever, I think negative. Its like I don't believe in myself, its like I don't believe in my relationships, like I don't believe in God. Its easy for everybody to say that 'God has set something real good for you, don't worry.' Ever noticed that people can just say that so easily but when it comes to themselves they doubt their own abilities? they doubt their own relationships? they doubt themselves? And to be clear, I'm not criticizing here, because I too am like that. I get happy over small things but at the same time I get upset over small things. I doubt myself, I start losing hope and I ask myself, "Why me?"
I'm sure everyone asks this question to themselves and to God, "why me?" Why can't we just tell ourselves that God will help us through? Why can't we just believe that this bad phase will be over one day and we'll be happy again with whatever we have and that we'll have better. We all give up on our relationships over small issues. We all doubt our capabilities just because we are not getting placed from our respective colleges. We all blame ourselves when something goes wrong? And every time we blame ourselves, I now believe, we blame God.
Ever thought that like we get hurt, God gets hurt too? God gets hurt when we blame ourselves, when we doubt, when we lose hope, when we give up, when we don't believe in our relationships and in our capabilities?
I don't know where I'm going with this. But this is all that I'm thinking about right now. But all I can say is its high time for me to stop thinking too much, and if I can't stop thinking then I should stop thinking negatively and if I can't do that then I can at least try to control the negative thoughts and let some positive thoughts in, because if every thing has a negative then it has its positives too.
